Conference FAQ (Frequently Asked Questions)

Q: Who is sponsoring this conference?

A: The Orange County Singles Conference, Calfornia’s largest 31+ Singles Conference,  is hosted by the Irvine Stake with the support of the South Orange County Coordinating Council of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, comprised of the following stakes: Irvine, Mission Viejo, Rancho Santa Margarita, Laguna Niguel, San Clemente and Newport Beach..

Q: I’m from out of the area, so where again is OC aka Orange County, California? 

A: Orange County is centrally located in between of Los Angeles and San Diego in sunny Southern California. Typically Southern California’s largest LDS Singles events are held here in the OC.

Q: What’s the age range for this conference? 

A: This is an inclusive conference for ALL singles 31 on up. In 2016 approximately 45% of those who attended were in the Midsingles range of 27-45, with the rest of the attendees being 45+, it was pretty evenly split which made for a conference filled with such amazing  energy, we loved seeing so many people enjoying themselves and meeting new friends.

Q: What’s the difference between the Orange County Singles Conference in August and the Huntington Beach Midsingles Conference in May? 

A: Here in Orange County, we are blessed to have two AMAZING conferences. In May, there’s the Huntington Beach Midsingles Conference (ages 27-45) sponsored by the Huntington Beach Midsingles Ward.   In the summer, there’s the Orange County Singles Conference (an all-age 31+) conference sponsored by the South Orange County Coordinating Council with Irvine Stake hosting for 2017.  The Orange County Singles Conference is an inclusive conference offering a different experience than Huntington Beach offers, typically we get a large group of Mid singles as well as single adults over the age of 45 though last year even a handful of YSA surprised us by coming to the dances. If you are a Midsingle in your 30s and early 40s, perhaps now is the time to start taking advantage of attending 31+ conferences and start to broaden your social circle. You’ll be surprised how Midsingles friendly the OC Singles Conference specifically will be.

Q: I’m a little leery attending all-age 31+ activities for fear of being hit on by people twice my age. How can I meet people of a similar age at this conference? 

A: Everyone should always just be polite if someone much older or younger than you is flirting with you, please remember sometimes it’s hard for people to tell ages specifically as people get to be older than 35.   While singles of all ages attend, don’t be afraid to walk up to people in your age range and say hi.  Take advantage of the small group activities to find people with common interests and sign up for speed mingling to meet new friends, guys & gals.  Remember so many people come in from out of town and are looking for people to hang out with as for many this is their first conference, try to be pro-social when you can and say hi, make a new friend.

Q. This OC Conference sounds ah-maz-ing and I really wanna go! But I really don’t know anyone, and I’m a little nervous going alone, any suggestions? 

A. First of all, you are not alone in feeling this. Many are attending the OC Conference this year for the first time. Perhaps unlike your prior experiences either at other singles activities, conferences,  this year’s Orange County Singles Conference has several smaller activities planned throughout the weekend, where everyone has an opportunity to meet people in smaller group settings.

Plus this year, new to the OC Conference, we plan to have a group of “Hosts” at the activities and during the day on Saturday who are also fellow singles just like you, to help introduce you to other like-minded singles during the weekend and answer any questions.

You can also coordinate carpools, message those on the groups and plan for rooms beforehand with other singles by joining our OC Conference Facebook Event Page

But ultimately we all need to stretch, be proactive, and get out of our comfort zone, and within no time, you will be able to meet and mingle with singles from all over the U.S. and beyond who are attending the OC Conference.

Here is a hint… if you are coming alone or new to the single scene, please know we have all been there, so, everyone is new to you and it’s hard to remember so many names; So  make it a goal to at every event you go to during the conference to meet 3 new people, most will have name badges on but better yet, try to focus and Remember their name and something about them. That’s it, 3 new people at each workshop, at lunch, at the dances, etc.  Before you know it, you’ll be surrounded by a good group of new friends.

Q: This conference sounds great, but “I don’t do well” in large groups. How am I able to meet others in smaller group settings? 

A. Don’t let the size of the OC Conference intimidate you. 🙂 As explained in the previous question, there are several smaller group activities planned throughout the OC Conference giving plenty of opportunities for people to meet others.  Plus, we have added several smaller group activities and new structured mingling activities this year, to help you break out of that clique and meet new people.

Q: What is speed mingling? How it does work? Do I have to speed mingle? 

A You will sign up for Speed Mingling during the Friday Night or Saturday Night events. Speed mingling is done with different targeted age ranges, to help meet like-minded people, guys/gals  in a similar stage of life. If you are on the cusp in between age range, you may pick one or both rounds.

31 – 45 Singles
45 – 55 Singles
55 – 65 Singles
65+ Singles
Wild Card 31+ All age… so everyone

Speed Mingling is just a low-key, no-stress way to meet new people and have face-time with singles you may not get a chance to on the dance floor or with the big crowd.  Think of speed mingling as a simple ice breaker activity. This year, we will be doing 2-3 minute rounds with 12-15 people (not the entire room) so only 30 minutes total per round, where the women once seated, stay, and then the men rotate every 2-3 minutes.

We will have ample space between couples, so that it’s not “Scream Dating” 🙂  Also, there will be a list of fun get-to-know-you questions if you need a little help in the conversation. Remember to keep the topics fun and light. Please do NOT ask uncomfortable questions that’s put people on the hot seat such as “What’s your story?” or “How long have you been single?” or “Why are you still single?” Discussing serious or heavy topics can be saved for later after the speed mingling round.  This is not an interview or an interrogation. 🙂

You will need to check-in at the Speed Mingling Registration Desk (next to the Speed Mingling Lounge, in order secure your spot to attend your speed mingling round.

If there is space available, any woman on the Standby Line can join the speed mingling round if they bring a guy friend with them (of a similar age) to the round. If the speed mingling round starts and there are a few women waiting on the Standby Line and there is still space available, women in the Standby Line can join the speed mingling during the session once we get a few more men to join us, so that there was always an even M/F ratio.

With so many Singles attending, we anticipate all the rounds to fill up with even M/F ratios.

After each of the Speed Mingling sessions, the entire group will be escorted to the Reception Area where everyone can meet and mingle with those you didn’t get a chance to speed mingle with, and that’s a great opportunity to exchange any contact info at that time. With everyone having lanyards with names too, you can connect with the people you connected with on Facebook after the round.

While speed mingling is happening on Friday and Saturday Nights, it’s only an optional activity. Only those interested in speed mingling will be speed mingling. It’s just a fun and easy way to meet people on a different level than you would at other activities.

Q: I don’t live in California, so why would I go to a Singles Conference in Orange County? Doesn’t everyone that attends live in California? What’s the breakdown of locations of attendees? How can I meet someone closer to where I live at the OC Conference? 

A: Actually over half of the attendees of the Orange County Singles Conference, don’t live in California. This is a national, if not an international conference, and so we get people from Australia, New Zealand, Latin America, Asia, Europe, the UK, and Canada in attendance.  Roughly the breakdown of attendees is 30% Southern California; 15% Northern California, Oregon, Washington;  20% Arizona;  20% Utah and Idaho;  10% Colorado going East (Midwest, East Coast, Southeast U.S.), 5% Outside of the U.S.

So what does this mean? This means out of all the singles attending , you often have a better chance to meet someone closer to where you live, here in Orange County, then sometimes at your own local activities. 🙂 (perhaps a stretch, but you get the idea) … so it’s worth it for you to attend.

Q: Is there a la carte registration? 

A: Yes, in the final days, a la carte registration will be offered.  Cash or credit card also available at the venue.  See the Registration Page for more details.

Q: Is there a special group discount to Disneyland on Monday, July 31st
A: Yes!  We have a special OC Conference Group Discount to Disneyland (and California Adventure), typically $8-12 off the regular price depending on ticket type. See the Monday Page under Schedule, for more details.

Q: I would like to attend the entire conference, but I can’t really afford it. Any suggestions? 

A: You can partial attend the conference to suit your budget, or proactively put aside a few bucks every paycheck for the next few months to be able to afford to attend the entire conference, or you can contact your Bishop for financial assistance to help pay for the conference. Usually the stakes in Orange County have historically supported their local singles in need to ensure everyone (regardless of financial need) can attend this amazing conference. However, you can’t just show up at the door and say “I’m in financial need”.  You will need to work this out with your Bishop beforehand. Your Bishop can mail the check  TBD , by using filling out the mail-in registration form on the Register Page, and then we can process your registration.

See the Registration Page for a la Carte options.

Q: I’m traveling from outside of the area and not familiar with Orange County. How should I get around to the different events at the conference? 

A: Since the events are held all over from Irvine, South Orange County (not to mention San Diego),  it’s best to carpool with others or rent a car, which is cheaper than taking a taxi or Uber-ing it. Using public transportation is not recommended in our area.

Q: How do I coordinate with others in sharing rides or rooms? 

A: The easiest way to coordinate with others to share rides or rooms is to use the OC Conference Facebook Event Page.

Q: Can I stay at members’ houses? 

A: Due to the size of the conference, we can’t accommodate everyone in members’ houses during the conference. A few members are offering their homes for the conference.  With the cost of real estate much higher in Orange County than in other areas in the country, most local singles actually live in condos, apartments, or smaller homes and can’t accommodate large groups where they live.

So we encourage you to use the hotel page on the conference website, and you can coordinate with others to share rooms on the OC Conference Facebook Group.

Q: What’s the refund policy for this conference? 

A:   There are no refunds being offered for the OC Conference. But , you can always sell or transfer your spot if need be, to someone else.  Most people transferring funds to each other via Venmo or Paypal. If you need to sell your spot, most people are posting on the OC Conference Facebook Event Page

Once you sell your spot, just notify us their name, address, ward, stake,  conference options via email before the conference at contact@oclds.singles so we can update the registration list.

Q: How many people are expected to attend? 

A: We expect over 750+ Singles from Southern California, the West Coast, and throughout the U.S. and around the world,  to attend  California’s largest All Age Singles Conference.   Some venues do have a limited capacity, so it’s best to register much sooner than later to secure you spot.

Q: Why do I need to register now instead of just showing up at the door? 

A: We encourage everyone to register sooner than later as some activities have a limited capacity and will sell out well before the conference.

Unlike some other conferences, this conference is entirely self-funded, meaning early registration helps pay for the cost of the conference.  If everyone registers late and/or just shows up at the door, it makes planning for a conference much more difficult to coordinate and budget.

So the earlier everyone registers, the better conference experience we can provide.

Q: What’s the dress code for this conference? 

A: If you are attending the temple on Thursday night in San Diego, it’s Sunday attire, Templeside is business, business casual, or church dress. as many come right from work to this event. Friday morning activities, casual or athletic wear. At the Friday Beach party, please modest beach attire, LDS Standards.  For Friday evening it will be Dress to Impress.

Saturday during the workshops,  it’s casual, no Sunday dress needed. Saturday evening is casual, summer dress.

For any outdoor event, it can still get a little chilly in the evening, even in July, so bring a light jacket, sweater, etc just in case.

Q: How do I register? 

A: It’s best to online on the Registration Page. Or you can pay at the door.